Debunking the biggest myths about foster care

Julie Petrovic

For those readers who don’t have a working definition, foster kids are children who, for reasons ranging from the death of one or both parents to abuse and neglect, enter the state’s foster care system. To learn more about the many reasons a child may enter the foster care system, please my article on Reasons children enter foster are not always what you think.

Because of a shortage of licensed foster homes, foster children in Travis County also move more often than those in other states. A state report shows that Texas' foster kids have an average of 5.6 placements in their first year of care versus the national average of 4.


Of course this inconsistency of rotating through placements slows foster kids’ academic progress to the tune of one year of lost academic progress for every four moves, according to one study.


Foster parent retention is a struggle, too. One study by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services found that about half of new foster parents quit within their first year. Foster parent licenses must be renewed every three years; those who let their license lapse must completely restart the process (which can take the better part of a year), says Thompson.


So where does this leave the over 1,200 children currently in the Travis County foster system? With a great deal of confusion, fear and worry towards their future.


Myth #1: The State pays for clothes, books, shoes, etc.
Unfortunately, this is not true, although it would be wonderful. Foster homes are paid on average of $500 to $700 per child to cover all costs associated with providing for that child. This payment must cover all related expenses including clothing, food, school supplies, etc. Thankfully, foster homes can turn to organizations including For Every Child and our Hope Totes program to pick up the slack and provide the children with necessities including pajamas and a new pair of shoes.


Myth #2: Foster kids are problematic and that's why they have many placements on their record
It's frequently assumed that a foster kid was a problem-child because he or she hadn’t found a permanent placement. The truth is a sad reality for all kids living in the foster care system. Frequent moves are common since there are fewer permanent homes than there are kids who need them, to the tune of 5 moves in their first year alone.


Myth #3: Teens in foster care are highly problematic
Oftentimes, if you mention that you're planning to foster teens, your friends and family members will give you a side eye look. Are you nuts? And according to the numbers, your friends and family aren't alone. Teenagers are adopted at a considerably lower rate than other children from foster care. In truth, nearly 25% of foster children awaiting adoption are teens, yet they only represent about 7% who enter the system. The truth is that these teenagers who have lived through far more than most adults do have emotional scars and face tribulations as any adolescent, but are often desperately hoping to find a permanent home.


Credibility International does it again with Birdies for Charity program.

Credibility International finishes the year with a bang and a $10,650 donation

By Julie Petrovic • January 1, 2022
Credibility International is one of professional golfer Tim Petrovic's sponsors on the PGA Champions TOUR. The forensic accounting firm is also a big supporter of charity. Through their Birdies for Charity program, they donated $10,650 to the 'Hope Totes' program . "We couldn't be more pleased to see Tim's partnership with one of his sponsors on the course positively impact our children's charity in such a big way," said For Every Child, Inc. president Julie Petrovic. This donation is enough to provide totes to over 1,000 kids. Credibility International is located in Washington, DC and works globally in financial disputes, forensic investigations and forensic accounting.

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Cable Com donates $11,000

December 14, 2021
Pictured above is the very first Cable Com golf tournament. We were very fortunate to be the recipients of this year's Cable Com golf tournament and received $11,000. Held at Twin Creeks Golf Club in Cedar Park, Texas, the tournament included fun events like closest to the pin prizes, a hole in one opportunity and specialty auction items such as a Texas wild hog hunt and a round golf with a touring golf pro. Cable Com president Paul Davis describes how the tournament started and evolved into a major supporter for local charities. "Cable Com has been holding an annual golf tournament for the past 30 years. Our 1 st tournament was the summer of 1991 with employees and a few of our friends. It was held at Bar K, a nine-hole course out by Lake Travis. We have had the tournament every year except for 2020 which was cancelled due to COVID. After a few years, we asked vendors to sponsor the tournament so we could invite some of our customers and we began donating money to Coats for Kids, a local Austin charity. I met Tim and Julie in 2006. We became pretty good friends. In 2011, I asked Tim if he would show up for our tournament and hit balls with some of our customers. He agreed to do so and we started supporting For Every Child. The rest is history."

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Charitable Giving - The effect of changes in tax law upon nonprofits

By Gerald Wassum • August 10, 2021
Charitable giving has become a big business in America! Large organizations developed to support specific charities have generated large staffs to support the fundraising function and the marketing programs to attract contributions from the public. Federal and state tax law has been written to encourage contributions by offering deductions for charitable gifts from both personal and business income tax. The Rise of For-Profit Fundraisers This has encouraged the growth of large organizations that do nothing except raise funds for charities and which take significant portions of the money raised for management salaries and marketing expenses that amount in some instances to as much as 50% of the donated funds! Recent changes to Federal Tax Law have reduced the attractiveness of the tax benefit of charitable giving, which has resulted in reductions in the amount of money given to charities. As a result, it has placed some strain on the budgets of some larger fundraising businesses. The result is that charities are more dependent on gifts from persons and entities, less for the tax benefit and more because they just want to DO GOOD! For Every Child which operates the Hope Totes program is committed to using all donated funds responsibly. The charity does not have paid positions, marketing budgets or use for-profit fundraisers. When you give $50 to For Every Child, 100% of that donation goes directly to helping the children in need.
Teenager removed from abuse and neglect forced to sleep in CPS offices with no foster homes.

Central Texas in a 'child placement crisis' as over 200 kids must sleep in CPS offices

By Julie Petrovic • July 29, 2021
Children are crying, refusing to leave their parents as they experience a myriad of adult-sized emotions including fear, confusion and grief over a loss they cannot understand yet. It's a heartbreaking scene to take in as child protective services enter the children's home and remove them from their families. The CPS agents usher the crying and scared children into vehicles with only a few of their belongings and taken to a place they have never seen before, full of strangers. The kids don't know when or if they will ever see their families again. This is the traumatic reality of 55 to 60 children each day throughout Central Texas as they are removed from abuse and neglect. While it is normal to assume these children would welcome the removal from abusive homes, these are the only homes and families they have ever known. Now they enter a system that is wholly overwhelmed with nothing but a small trash bag and rarely a change of clothing.
Pre-teen removed from a neglectful home is waiting to enter a stranger's house.

Reasons children enter foster care are not always what you think

By Julie Petrovic • July 29, 2021
Central Texas, including Travis County, currently has over 1,200 children in the foster care system. While abuse and neglect are often the most common reasons for a child's removal from his or her home, they aren't the only ones.

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By Julie Petrovic • July 2, 2021
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Domestic violence and abuse victim escaped to an emergency shelter for a fresh start.

Texas domestic and family violence statistics

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Credibility sponsors Tim Petrovic on the PGA Tour Champions to benefit For Every Child of Austin

Credibility International sponsors birdies for charity

By Julie Petrovic • January 1, 2019
Credibility Internationa l, a forensic accounting firm headquartered in Washington D.C. just donated money to For Every Child for every birdie Champions Tour Player Tim Petrovic made in 2018. Tim made 290 birdies during the season, resulting in an $11,700 donation. With this generous $11,700 we will be able to provide 156 Hope Totes for abused and neglected children entering the system. “In addition to being very generous to our charity, Credibility International also sponsors me on the golf tour. I’m honored to work with Credibility to give back,” said Vice President Tim Petrovic. This is the second year that For Every Child has received money from Credibility International’s generous community giving.
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